POWER. AUTHORITY. MEDIATION.

Mediation can be tricky when it comes to understanding who holds the power to make decisions—and just how much power the participants truly have.

It’s about knowing when you can make decisions on your own and when/ how/ why it might be time to take a break and check in with someone else—whether it’s a lawyer, family member, or anyone else who might have a say.

In this little comic, we see how a mediator might explain authority in the room, helping everyone feel clear about their role.

So, take a look at this chat between the chairs and see if it helps get a better sense of how authority works in mediation! 🙂

[The mediation room is quiet, with three chairs arranged in a circle. The Mediator Chair sits in the center, calm and composed. The Executive Chair and Folding Chair sit across from each other, a bit anxious about the upcoming process.]

Mediator Chair (calmly, addressing the others): [with a welcoming tone] Before we start, let’s clarify something important. The authority here belongs to you—the people involved in the mediation. You will be the ones making decisions. And, let me ask: Do you each feel that you have the authority to make these decisions, or do you need to consult with others outside the room?

Executive Chair (squirming, trying to assert itself): I’m the one with the power to make decisions. I mean, I’m built for comfort and decision-making, right?

Folding Chair (leaning forward, eager to contribute): I’m the one who’s ready to fold when it’s time to wrap things up. Let’s keep this moving!

Mediator Chair (nodding wisely, keeping the calm): Yes, yes. But remember—while you do hold the power to decide, if you feel unsure, it’s okay to take a step back and consult others. Whether it’s a lawyer, family member, or anyone else with a stake in your decision, don’t hesitate to pause and gather input before making a final choice.

Executive Chair (pausing, understanding): So, you’re saying I don’t have to make all the decisions right now?

Mediator Chair (gently): Yes. The goal is to make informed decisions, and sometimes that requires taking a break to talk to those who may have more authority or perspective on the matter.

Folding Chair (nodding thoughtfully): Got it. We all need to feel comfortable before moving forward.

Mediator Chair (smiling, reassured): Yes. We’ll take it step by step, ensuring everyone is ready and fully confident in the decisions made here.

Executive Chair: OK.

Folding Chair: Alright.

Understanding the balance of power and authority in mediation is key to feeling confident and comfortable with the decisions made. It’s not just about who holds the power, but how and when to take a pause to consult others who may have a stake in the process.

So, dear reader, if you ever find yourself navigating the complexities of mediation, don’t hesitate to ask your mediator or mediation counsel to guide you through the process of authority—because when it comes to power, authority, and mediation, clarity will make all the difference.

Thank you for reading :),